Every woman's dream is to have the love of her life get down on one knee and ask that question "Will you make me the luckiest guy in the world and marry me?" Not every woman always has the fairy tale proposal or relationship... You just look at the guy you love and think... "why cant you just read my mind and know that every woman wants to be swept off her feet?,dummy" So we woman settle for who he is cause lets face it women, we are not perfect neither.
Yes, that is a hard pill to swallow isn't it? You just hope that what you have will actually last and he really means what he says.
There are several reasons why men get married;
The one every woman kinda hopes for...
He is all crazy in love with you, some call it blind love.
He has been with you for so long that he feels he has to give in
example "College Sweethearts"
Then there are the ones that fake it, cause shes a good girl and she's paid her dues, doesn't know I'm keeping a mistress around anyway
You get knocked up and he feels trap and has to be stuck with you
The last one is he has run out of excuses and you force him to marry you
Am I being bitter or negative? No, just realistic.
Fairy tales... how I wish I could believe in them again.
There once was a time for only a minute. I did believe in flying on cloud nine, dancing on sunshine cause he made me so happy, then reality slapped me, HARD.
Found out he screwed me over and didn't know how to love, cause he cannot love himself.
Then somehow, one day my life changed and now I'm engaged.
Great thing is I found out I was still able to love, bad thing is I no longer believe in fairy tales, that was taken away from me a while ago. Ladies, I think the reason is because men do not want use to believe in them. Sets the bar pretty high,
don't you think? Too much work for them. Meaning in the end, not worth all the work.
Not really sure what my point is to all of this....
Guess just trying to figure myself out again. What lead me to this path?
Do we settle for no fairy tale or just take life as it is??
